In calm, love is found.  The truth is, you may be hurt, but in acceptance and forgiveness, you may gain understanding, talk it through, understand your past and theirs, healing yourself and others as well.  Commune.  Grow.  Search yourself for meaning; value.  The thing that brings you passion.  That is the purpose.  As you slow, you recognize yourself, what you've been through, where you've been, and knowing that helps, gives strength to the belly.  As you learn, you recognize that you can too, and that is a beautiful thought if ever there is one.  Love each other easy.  Talk. Listen.  Understand.  That brings you where you may.  Power lasts for but a moment.  Love forever.  Hold onto your love.  Make her dear and listen and understand.  She will love you.  And wherever the wind may blow, let it be so.   What may happen, may happen.  That is union.